We're kind of playing our four days there by ear, but we are definitely planning to have dinner one night at Inlet Seafood, which was recommended by several of you.
It's possible that I'll be able to snag a wifi signal from a nearby resort (the house we're renting doesn't have it) so you may get some as-they-happen updates. If not, I'll post about all the fun (and wine I'm taking) later.
In the meantime, for all you Long Islanders out there, check out Long Island Restaurant Week, which starts on Sunday. Three courses for $21.95 at many of the Island's best restaurants. If we can find a sitter, we certainly plan to take full advantage.